Arguing 101: Learn the Rules

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# Once you start, finish.

# No screaming.

# Don't touch (or otherwise be physical).

# Any subject is fair game. O
# No name calling. Nothing ends a discussion faster than the deafening silence that comes after you've offended someone.

# Don't intentionally put the person down.

# Don't Lecture. Nobody wants to be told 'You should …"

# Keep it simple. Discuss one subject at a time.

# Let the other person have a chance to speak. Give him or her a chance to communicate with you.

# Listen. “Listening is a magnetic and strange thing, a creative force. When we really listen to people there is an alternating current, and this recharges us so that we never get tired of each other. We are constantly being re-created.”

# Describe what you're feeling.

# Allow the other person to have his/her own feelings.

# Don't tell the other party what they're feeling.

# Talk only about the here and now.

# Leave 'others' out of the dialogue. '

# Don't be a 'yes man.' Agreement must be genuine, not compromised for the sake of false harmony.

# Don't be a naysayer. It too easy to simply oppose ideas or to just say "no.'

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